Dr. Miriam Kirmayer
Montreal, Canada

Dr. Miriam Kirmayer

Clinical Psychologist Focused on Relationships & Workplace Connection

4.8 · 558 recent attendees voted
The pitch

A clinical psychologist translating friendship science into workplace belonging systems leaders can operationalize, not just celebrate.

Dr. Miriam Kirmayer is a clinical psychologist, leading friendship expert, and one of the most influential speakers on human connection and social support. With over a decade of research in the science of friendship, Dr. Miriam’s work has revolutionized the way we show up for, mentor, and connect with each other.

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What Miriam speaks on.

Hybrid and remote work. Returning to the office. Differing views and values. Technology and a reliance on digital communication. All can contribute massively to the increasing rates of loneliness, disengagement, and burnout. But they also present opportunities— for collaboration, for inclusion, and for stronger social health.

In this interactive keynote, Dr. Miriam translates her groundbreaking research on the science of friendship into an actionable framework that every organization can use to co-create a powerful culture of connection with their employees—and build an energizing environment where people are motivated, supported, and recognize that they belong.

Join the growing list of organizations who are harnessing the power of connection to increase innovation, collaboration, engagement, and retention — while also contributing to the health and well-being of their employees far beyond the workplace.

Key Audience Takeaways:

– Understand the value of connection and why it’s a primary focus of today’s leading organizations.

– Identify the three pillars of healthy connections at work—and how everyone in the company benefits from and contributes to them.

– Learn practical tools for improving communication, strengthening relationships, and coping with conflict and uncertainty at work Cultivate a workplace that leads to greater belonging, psychological safety, and connection in every environment, from hybrid and hot desking to in-person work

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What do people really need from their leaders when things feel challenging or uncertain? How can managers inspire confidence, strengthen accountability, and encourage growth—especially when their teams are struggling, stuck, or ready to level up?

In this practical and human-centered keynote, Dr. Miriam reveals a novel framework: The 4 Supporter Archetypes and shares how to maximize leadership impact by moving from reflexive to responsive. Attendees learn to gauge the right type of support, guidance, or feedback for any situation—and to deliver it more effectively and impactfully.

From leaders and managers to mentors and peers, everyone has the opportunity to better show up for their teams and others—and contribute to a culture of stronger relationships, greater accountability, and shared growth.

Harness the power of connected leadership and support to elevate team performance, strengthen resilience, and unlock powerful potential in your community and the people who make it extraordinary.

Key Audience Takeaways:

– Learn the 4 supporter archetypes and discover your unique supporter strengths and slip-ups to better understand yourself—and the people around you.

– Become a connected supporter. Develop the core skills and mindsets needed to support and lead more thoughtfully and impactfully.

– Reframe the 3 misconceptions standing in the way of stronger connections and growth. Learn how to ask for and secure the right kind of support and buy-in, in any situation.

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Even in the closest communities—and most successful organizations—connection can be complicated. Physical distance, escalating uncertainty, and differing views and values can all create space between us. But one of the most surprising and consequential divides is the one we rarely name: the gap between the relationships we have and the ones we want.

When we bridge this REAL–IDEAL divide, we unlock something powerful: a deeper sense of connection, powerful potential, and collective growth and success.

In this engaging keynote, Dr. Miriam Kirmayer shares three actionable pillars grounded in the science and strategy of friendship—while revealing powerful connection secrets along the way.

Through practical insights, relatable storytelling, and Dr. Miriam’s research-backed framework, people, teams, and organizations gain the key practices, communication skills, and mindset shifts needed to build better relationships, navigate interpersonal changes and challenges, and sustain connection and collaboration.

Attendees leave with practical strategies and clear next steps—ready to invest in the relationships that inform and transform their well-being, work, and impact.

Key Audience Takeaways:

– Discover why investing in relationships is the #1 predictor of individual well-being and collective success—and why it matters more now than ever.

– Unlock 3 powerful connection secrets to build trust, spark new connections, and strengthen collaboration and cohesion.

– Take home a practical framework with the mindset shifts, relational strategies, and everyday actions that sustain connection—even in times of stress, uncertainty, and change.

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Why clients book
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Friendship science turned into simple, repeatable team practices
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Gives managers a practical language for support and belonging
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Credibility across media, policy, and organizational culture work
Speaker DNA

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Storytelling
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Practicality
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Customization
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Strategic
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Interactive
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Inspiring
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Thought-provoking
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Authentic
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Research-heavy
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Data-driven
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Motivational
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Reviews

Straight from the room.

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"Her knowledge, humanity and warmth made it easy to build an event that ended up being an overwhelming success. I highly suggest working with Dr. Kirmayer on events."

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Samantha Daoust, Marketing at Ardene
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“Dr. Miriam Kirmayer's keynote on the power of social connection was nothing short of transformative. Her insights into building and maintaining meaningful relationships resonated deeply with our attendees, providing invaluable strategies for fostering connection. Her research and practical advice emphasized that connection is not just a nice-to-have — it's essential for well-being and growth. The impact of her presentation will undoubtedly ripple through our work and communities for years to come.”

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Executive Director, Inclusions East Inc.
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“Informative, fueling, engaging, expanding and connective presentation and discussion about our everyday and special relationships. Lots of actionable strategies for developing communication skills for enhancing all connections.”

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PacificWest Conference
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“Absolutely outstanding! I already mentioned how useful and refreshing this session was to my team. I adored Dr. Kirmayer's approach. This is going to be the first presentation that I am going to rewatch. I would love for her to come back — and even better, do workshops with her.”

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Canadian Innovation Centre for Mental Health in the Workplace — Government of Canada
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“Dr. Miriam was a fantastic resource for our large group of CEOs. Informative, provocative and unexpected, persuasive… super engaging, highly interactive and conversational, great topic expert — gave the participants a ton of 'take home value.'”

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YPO Bay Area
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“Truly energizing and deeply relevant! Dr. Miriam Kirmayer's keynote was a standout moment of our RKO. Her insights on collaboration, connection, and purpose were a great reminder that while our day-to-day roles may differ, our goals are shared. She gave us the language, tools, and mindset to work better together.”

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Director, Revenue Enablement, Docebo
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“Dr. Miriam's perspectives are insightful, her subject matter expertise is unmatched, her presentation style is enrapturing, and her zest for life is absolutely infectious. Her presentation highlighting the importance of connectedness is so relevant in the new virtual workplace, and her tangible strategies to foster those positive links are thoughtful, strategic, and achievable. Not only is she extremely well-educated and experienced in her field, it is very apparent that she lives these values daily. Dr. Miriam was a delight to work with and she is wholeheartedly recommended to any organization looking to create a vibrantly connected workforce, both in office and virtually.”

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Chair, Spark Women's Leadership Conference
Beyond the keynote

Book Miriam for more.

A keynote is one hour. Sometimes what your room actually needs is a workshop, a room-in-a-room advisory, a moderated panel, or a private Q&A. Miriam does all of it.

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